Florist’s Guide to the Origins of Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day is one of the busiest holidays for florists worldwide, yet its origins are as rich and layered as the blooms we sell. Understanding the history allows florists to create more meaningful arrangements, tell compelling stories to customers, and connect floral symbolism to the deeper cultural roots of love and romance.


1. Ancient Roots: Roman and Pagan Influences

Valentine’s Day traces its origins to ancient Rome, particularly the festival of Lupercalia, celebrated in mid-February. Lupercalia was a pagan festival dedicated to fertility, purification, and the coming of spring.

  • Fertility rituals: Young men would draw the names of women from a box, pairing off for the duration of the festival or sometimes longer-term courtships.
  • Role of flowers: While not fully documented, flowers and greenery were likely used in these rituals as symbols of fertility and renewal, echoing spring’s bloom.

By associating flowers with fertility and love, these early customs foreshadowed the floral traditions we celebrate today.


2. Saint Valentine: The Christian Connection

The modern Valentine’s Day is most commonly linked to Saint Valentine, though history offers multiple figures named Valentine, all martyrs from the Roman era.

  • Legend of the priest Valentine: One story tells of a priest who secretly married couples during Emperor Claudius II’s rule, defying the emperor’s ban on marriage for young men (who were wanted for military service).
  • Martyrdom and legacy: Valentine was executed on February 14, which later became associated with love, devotion, and clandestine courtship.

Florists can highlight this story to reinforce the idea of love against all odds, making the act of gifting flowers symbolic of courage, passion, and commitment.


3. Medieval Romance and Courtly Love

By the 14th and 15th centuries, Valentine’s Day evolved into a celebration of romantic love, particularly in England and France. This era introduced the concept of courtly love, where flowers were often sent as tokens of admiration.

  • Flower symbolism: Roses, violets, and primroses became associated with specific meanings:
    • Red roses: Passion and desire
    • Violets: Modesty and faithfulness
    • Primroses: Young love or first affection
  • Written expressions: Poetic Valentine letters often accompanied bouquets, linking written word and floral gesture, a practice still reflected today in cards paired with flowers.

Florists can use these historical flower meanings to guide bouquet design and explain symbolism to customers.


4. Commercialization and Modern Valentine’s Day

By the 18th and 19th centuries, Valentine’s Day became widely celebrated in Europe and later North America. Printed cards, handmade gifts, and flowers became central to the holiday.

  • Victorian influence: The Victorians popularized the “language of flowers” (floriography), where every bloom carried a coded meaning.
  • Red roses: Cemented as the ultimate symbol of romantic love.
  • Flower gifting: Transitioned from elite or courtly practice to mainstream commercial tradition.

Today, Valentine’s Day is a multi-billion-dollar industry for florists worldwide, with red roses remaining the most iconic choice, alongside tulips, lilies, orchids, and mixed bouquets.


5. Global Variations and Timing

While February 14 is recognized internationally, some countries have adapted the holiday with local twists:

  • Japan and South Korea: Women give chocolates on February 14; men reciprocate on White Day (March 14) often with flowers.
  • Brazil: Dia dos Namorados is celebrated on June 12, emphasizing flowers and romantic gifts.
  • Mexico: Día del Amor y la Amistad includes flowers for friends and family, not only romantic partners.

Florists can use this information to plan seasonal promotions and cultural storytelling, appealing to diverse clientele.


6. Tips for Florists Using History to Enhance Sales

  1. Tell a story: Include a brief note with bouquets about the origins of Valentine’s Day and the historical significance of chosen flowers.
  2. Highlight symbolism: Educate customers on what each flower or color represents—red roses for passion, pink for admiration, orchids for beauty and desire.
  3. Offer thematic arrangements: Create “Saint Valentine’s Collection” bouquets that reference the historical or medieval roots of the holiday.
  4. Cultural awareness: Offer designs that align with international customs, e.g., odd-numbered bouquets for Russia, vibrant mixed bouquets for Mexico.

For florists, Valentine’s Day is more than just a busy season—it is an opportunity to connect customers to centuries of romance, symbolism, and storytelling. By understanding the origins of Valentine’s Day—from ancient Rome, through medieval courtly love, to modern commercial practices—florists can elevate their craft, create meaningful experiences, and offer bouquets that speak both to the heart and to history.